My Book Of Awesome

Hey lovely person! How are you doing today? Did you have a good day; full of laughter, friends, and ice cream? Me too! It also came to my attention today, and for the past few days, how awesome hugs are. Have you ever thought about that? How much you've needed a hug and then having someone wrap their arms around you in a warm embrace? It feels so good! I've also realized that some people are better at giving hugs than others, so if someone has ever told you that you give good hugs its probably true and you should take that as a huge complement. And you should go share your gift with as many people as possible in one day. Unless you're sick, then that's a health concern and you should probably stay away from people, and wear a medical mask. Anyway, as you've probably guessed, my Awesome thing of the day is.... hugs! People are more reluctant to touch each other these days, especially with hugs. Unless they're dating, then they have no problem making out in the halls. Like seriously, PDA! I know I'm not a very physical person so if I don't know you very well, stay on your side of the personal bubble. But I've found myself opening up more to my friends and starting to crave the physical contact and close proximity to them. Now I know hugging can be a complicated, confusing affair but I have some tips for the next time someone comes at you with their arms spread open.

1) Don't shy away or do that awkward thing where you shake their hand as they try to put their arms around you. That's rude and you might offend them. Just go through with the hug and it'll be over before you know it!
2) Don't hug someone for too long, or too short. Short hugs don't mean anything. You have to allow enough time to settle into the hug, for you to actually enjoy it. But hugs that last longer than they should are awkward and uncomfortable. Don't make anyone feel uncomfortable, so if they start pulling away. just let go.
3) Don't worry about putting your arms the wrong way. Apparently there are rules about how you are supposed to hug a girl if you're a guy, and guy if you're a girl, and if you're two girls who are just friends, or if you're best bros, or if you're short, or if you're tall, or if you're an alien with 6 arms, or something. Don't listen to them. I usually just go with the one arm over, one arm under because its the easiest and you don't feel like you're dominating someone, or being dominated. Or crushed. But it really doesn't matter, it's a casual hug after all. Not a martial arts move that requires intense precision!

I hope that helped to clear up any confusion you had over the subject of hugging. But if you have anymore questions about it please leave a comment! And the next time you see one of your good friends, give them a nice big bear hug! And some chocolate too 'cause everyone loves chocolate! Sincerely, Sam